Oh, another thing she brought up was that she mention things would not change, it would be the same if we stayed together.
Man, that really did hurt.
She mentioned that I loved my job more than my family (did a lot of travelling last year whilst our house was being built, huge burden on W, my fault). And that I wasn't there for her.
I told her that If I knew this, I would have quit my job (only reason I didn't was because it paid enough to maintain our lifestyle, and without it, W would have gone without).
I also told her that everything is fixable. And that I would always put my family before my job, even if it meant pursuing a more family friendly one.
I hope this was appropriate to say, sort of R talk.
