First Wives Club! Doesn't Bette go back with her guy?
Don't ask H about kids' pics. Make all those decisions on your own. You will need to be a lot more independent now. He will see all those previously normal honey dos as neediness. Yes, he will be hot and cold and it will seem out of the blue, apathetic, cruel, cold, then you will get a glimmer or ray of what it use to be like. Just keep pushing through the fog and know that deep down in his core is your old H and he is not completely lost. His self esteem is so low he is not choosing to show you respect because he does not respect himself. Does this make sense? He will blame you for making him feel like crap because he is treating you like crap. Oddest rationale ever but it is a MLC. Is there a pill for this terrible crisis?
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."