cobra, your reply to me is PRECISELY why it's time to stop catering to her, coddling her, and playing by her rules.

(I can predict your response: "who said anything about 1) catering to her, 2)coddling her, and/or 3) playing by her rules?")

You're suggesting hairdog base his strategy on his/your knowledge of what "works" with a narcissist.

(I know: "who said anything about hairdog developing a 'strategy'?")