Oh, and Karen - I've been reading "The Secret" and am just trying to employ strong visualization tactics to materialize my desires. I'm not trying to police anyone's fantasies (speaking of police, I have a pretty good one myself of my BIL in his upholding-the-law blue uniform, actually) lol!
36 y/o HD in committed monogomous relationship for 15 years (at least on my end, assumed on his as well) 2 children, 6.5 dd & 5 ds
