What is reasonable and what is not?

[Startingover2]

Been a long week.....being pregnant and in this limbo turmoil is hard. I am not sleeping well. Not sure if its because of being pregnant or the night time I tend to think alot.

I have gone pretty much dark on him all week. I never contact him and am short and to the point when he contacts me. Not rude, but just keeping it simple. He tends to come around more during the week. Weekends he is usually drinking and doing his own thing.

Wednesday night he sent a text saying he felt like he was having a nervous breakdown and his legs wont stop shaking and asked what to do. I told him to relax and maybe take the med for RLS he has. I never heard from him again that night. He was supposed to show up to my son's (his stepson) football game and never did. He sent a text later saying he couldn't make it. I didn't respond.

Tonight he sends one wondering why I never contact him or call him. Does he forget about last weekend and me telling him he can't have his cake and eat it too? He went on to say that Wednesday he needed to talk and I blew him off. This is what he does.....he turns things on me and pretends he is angry with me. I don't have the OW. I don't party like a frat boy.

Last thing I heard was 'have a good night'. Like he is pouting. I just replied with 'you too'.

This is so incredibly frustrating. We have a child coming and he is playing games like a baby. I try and stand up for myself and he turns the tables. I am sure he is home drinking and thinking I just gave him a reason to call OW.

Stay strong, stay strong, stay strong.