Try the book Getting Back Together. Give you some guidance on when you should get back together. If he isn't willing to cut ties with OW then you don't really have a marriage do you? You probably won't get much respect from him if you don't stand your ground on this. Until he stops contact with OW, he's not fully committed to this M.
M: 31 W: 31 M: 7 T: 8 S:4 D:2 Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one S on 9/2/07 W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.
