I, If your h was going through mlc and had something "snatch" him back to reality, yes, he can be now starting all over again. It's been said that if they are snatched back from the transition/crisis and haven't completed it, the second time around will be much worse.
As we grow up, we go through life transitions, i.e., one a puberty, another around the age of 18-21, around 30, 40ish and again later on in life. Many times, we blaze right through them w/o blinking the eye. Other times, they are interrupted and something will trigger them to start the transition/crisis all over again. How they process their issues is unique unto themselves. No two are alike, just as no two individuals are alike. Those w/"minor" issues tend not to be quite as off the wall as some of those whose issues are severe. How they react to their crisis will depend upon their childhood issues and also the way that we react to their flipping the switch. The more we push them for answers, the harder they will pull away and act out.
I'm very sorry to have you back here again, but you know what you need to do and we will be here to support you. You've already been on the coaster once, so this time around you are already more prepared than the first time around.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
