Aha!
(at home now)

Isnt that what we are supposed to be doing, setting boundaries but being the best friend we can be and acting "as if"

Havent used that one in a while but it seemed appropriate, however, acting as if in this scenario has to be bracketed by YOUR boundaries.

C

Me: 46
Wife: 39
D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7
Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07
Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.