I always make the man do most of the work when I first have sex with them.
I've done both. I've found that almost all... nope... definitely all the guys I've ever had sex with are pretty much game for anything.... so I figured out... that I enjoy myself so much more when I know what I want and how I want it... and I get it, either by asking or directing (and it isn't, like, that direct and commando as I am making it sound, I just don't know how else to say it).
Of course, I am so different now than when I was dating before, so I don't know if it is even worth comparing the two...
I'm getting so confused with Mo's animals and zoos and brownies and cookies, I don't know whether to eat, fck or feed my bun-key.