muddled and angry: Puddle's sencond thread

[Not Much Left]

MMH, now I am gunshy

Not really, I have pretty thick skin, no worries as they say. I just happen to be on a blackberry all day long and post while I'm driving at 70 mph, safe eh!

Puddle, how about, "I would prefer that if you decide to date outside our marriage, you not (i) bring anyone to the house and if you feel compelled to do so, you should think about getting a separate place" Doesnt that put it back in his court to come up with a whole bunch of answers while you have been mature about it.

At the end of the day, he is then deciding to break some vows other than just physically separating. I think it will make him think hard about what is going on and again, may get you some answers or at least insights without laying down an ultimatum which usually has the opposite effect on the desired result.

FWIW.
C

ah, ah, ah, MMH, she said I could post