puddle, I am near the end of my IC and my therapist thinks I am doing quite well and handling things reasonably. It worked out for me very good and I am delighted to have came this far but I am no longer holding the W back.

IMHO, its like dont fail me for NOT trying. I have done what I needed to do, and keep on doing what needs to be done. If the S dont want to do anything then so be it. I cant force the W to make changes in her life. Let it be. I am happy and more contented about life than anything else.

cva, it was a low blow. LOL. All in good spirit though.

See the W, Listen to the W, but dont Speak back to the W. Bridle your tongue...