Almost a WAW

[Dom R]

treat him the way you want to be treated it takes time but I bet he will come around.

oooo.. nice sentiment.. but.. I have to say it.. probably wont work. Speaking as a man... Men are dumb

And besides which.. you need to treat him as HE wants to be treated, to motivate him to treat you like YOU want to be treated.
First, you have to figure out how he is different from you, and give him what HE wants. Then, you have to let him know, how your wants, are different from what he wants. 'cause he probably doesnt have a clue about that either.


Treating him the way you want to be treated, will just irritate him, if that's not an interest that he shares with you.