Puddle
Just wanted you to know I have read your stuff and this is a tough one.

I think u need to be truthful/ upfront about your exectations re: what is going on. The only reason I left the house was because I knew if I didn't, we were done for sure. I think it would be hard for u to ask him to leave given it is his house too.

What is his reasoning behind wanting to date? He is still married and if he is done and you don't want that, it will prolly come down to you leaving, staying and being wildly pissed every time he brings someone home (which would totally unacceptable imho) or you telling him u want to sell the house as it is art yours and if he is done, you want ypur own place. He can't have his cake as they say


I may be way off here...


Me: 46
Wife: 39
D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7
Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07
Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.