Last timehe had the kids for 6 hours. The baby never got changed and my toddler didn't get dinner til he came home at 8:30 PM. Selfishness is just not an option for us. Our H's are using both our share of selfishness for themselves.
The funny thing is that every time I talk to H, he never fails to say that I am selfish and that he needs to take care of himself right now. OK.
My H does not even carry a diaper bag! My S2 has not been potty trained. Both kids have regressed about 6 months anyways now. My H drives all the way o my mom's to change a diaper and stashes the car seats away when his tour of duty is completed.
Yes, my neighbour joked that my H is on a 5 month vacation away from his own kids.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."