Husband, FYI my name is not Eric that is the OM name. I know I should not have chosen a screen name that is shortened to ERC, which unfortunately is close to Eric.
My friend and I refer to the OM as the Big E or of course Dr. Adultery. That SOB is going to be mocked and ridiculed the rest of his life when he comes up in a conversation. We have a good laugh at the expense of Big E. We have yet to nickname his W OM. Maybe we should call him Pepe Le Pu since he texts messages in French to my friends W.