You don't have to be better looking or go through a MLC yourself. You just have to love yourself and remember who you are.
Yes, I agree... but a little botox, chemical peels, brow wax, push-up bra, working out at the gym, new clothes from the Junior's despartment in Macy's (or Abercrombie!) never hurts!!!!
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.