(((HUGS))) its so hard on the friends. one thing I realized is I need to make a sincere effort not to talk about H every time I talk to my friends. there is more going on in my life than my marriage drama, even when it is at the forefront. it gets old for me, I can only imagine how it gets for them. make the effort with her, and eventually she will come around. do what you need to do to make up to her, she sounds like a wonderful friend. and then try to bring the drama here, or to your therapist, and leave his family/your friends out of it unless they ask...and then, keep it brief.
good luck!
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
