Now I've done it

[nephartiti]

That's exactly it, MK! Exactly! I have sat and thought the exact same things!

Sometimes /i consider dropping off the kids and taking off for a few days. That would be selfish, and just like him. Then I think of my kids and know it just wouldn't be right. Last timehe had the kids for 6 hours. The baby never got changed and my toddler didn't get dinner til he came home at 8:30 PM. Selfishness is just not an option for us. Our H's are using both our share of selfishness for themselves.

The funny thing is that every time I talk to H, he never fails to say that I am selfish and that he needs to take care of himself right now. OK.