Because S_O_T_S was right, about the only sign that matters is when they walk thru the door and say they want to try to make the marriage work.
A few things about this.
1) The first time heard it put this way it came from swashy. 2) He meant it as, don't read too much into "baby steps" 3) He did not mean don't discount them entirely either 4) The real point is, you don't know how to interpret words/actions/behaviors on the part of someone else because you only have part of the picture.
Case in point, I was just out with a nice woman and got a kiss at the end of the evening. Good sign, I thought. Turned out to be her way to say goodbye...
have some wine chilling so if the kids are too rowdy, well, who cares? lol.
I'm impressed that you can stay so lighthearted during these times. How do you think you do that?
Take care,
S_O_T_S aka: Stoic_On_The_Surface
I can't quite get there cause my heart's forsaken me - KT Tunstall