Puddle,
I think you're right on the insecurity thing. I never minded that I watched them more than she did, but I do think she feels slightly guilty now. For no real reason either, she's always been a good mom.

I'm (mostly) past beating myself up over where we are. It's actually helped me detach because it allowed me to sort of see where she's coming from and stop blaming her. (Though I just wish she had told me how she was feeling. That part of the failure of our M is all on her.)

Yep, keep on keeping on. Less words, same amount of action.

Move in will be next Friday. Well, most of my stuff will be there this weekend. I'll be there next Friday.

BD


My latest

Me: 36
W: 35
2 D: 9 and 5
T: 16 years
M: 12
10/4/06: Bomb
10/5/06: Ended A
4/22/07: ILYBNILWY

I'm a beautiful butterfly.