HI everyone I'm brand new and just over a week away from the bomb being dropped, (Other man/emotional affair, and I'm not attracted to you anymore, etc.) It was the hardest couple of days I've ever survived, but now with the help of going dark, things are already turning around. I have alway been the more emotional, pursuing one (many calls a day, etc.) so it is not in any way a natural way for me, but with the help of the fuel my anger provides, and rediscovering myself a little (an amazing thing!) It's been surprisingly easy. And after just a few days I received 2 notes and was told today to give her a call if I needed to. This may not seem like much but compared to the cold anger and withdrawl that have been the norm lately, this is a near miracle.
Just wanted to tell my story and thank everyone forbeing so open. It's helped me a great deal.
