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Soooo... think of fun things for you to do... make plans for them... invite him.. and if he comes along, have a great time together, and if he doesnt, have a great time without him

That way, you are clearly not "unavailable". yet at the same time, you are not "dependant" on him either.


Now there's an interesting solution. Thanks! \:\)

Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing