MsHdog: I want you to find another bed to sleep in tonight.
And the reason? Quote: I just don't want you in the same bed as me.
Ok, that's easy - YOU find another bed to sleep in because I am quite comfortable in MY bed thank you
HD - DON'T give up your bed. It is giving up your power to her after SHE was wrong! If she doesn't want to sleep in the same bed as you, then let her find other accommodations
If she's not comfortable sleeping with you, then she should go somewhere else. You don't have to fight or argue about it, just don't move.
I totally understand that you're ready to bail... when I joined this board (three years ago this weekend), you were ready to move to the basement. Have things improved substantially since then? In spite of counseling, negotiating, accommodating?
It's not your job to fix her.
corri, apology accepted although I don't know what you're apologizing for. As for my feelings about Mrs. HD, I think I said "I don't give a rat's a$$ about her," and besides, what's this bucket of tar, sack of feathers, and coil of rope doing on my desk? Why did you say I wasn't being hard on her?