My H is very good about this and has a strong boundary. I called him a name once ("A--hole" I think) and he very calmly but firmly stated something similar to the above. It's clear.
LFL,
You wrote this about your H over on Hdog's thread. I know I am way late on your relationship problems with your H but everything I have ever read in the last 6 months make him sound like a helluva catch!! Seriously I find myself thinking I really LIKE this guy!! And you are such a great person it seems impossible to imagine that you guys can't get things on track.
Are you sure you have done enough of your own personal self-improvement and self understanding? I'd ask the same of your H but it is hard to answer that question for other people. sometimes it just becomes a projection of your own issue!
It just seems like there is one small missing piece to the puzzle of your marriage. Good luck finding it!!!
But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads? ~Albert Camus
