How to keep GALing from backfiring?

[lester]

this relationship i admit has turned me into kind of a kept man. and no not all my Rs have been like that. In fact, I have been the dominant one (don't like that phrase but have seen it in books) in about half previously. I guess complacency has let me be confined to how she wants.

her past R's have been either to walk over the guy or be ultra clingy and drive him away. she still thinks of the guy she was clingy with and this seems to be her part two.