I'm certainly not saying HD is a bad guy, I just think he is really not doing well at maintaining the boundaries. That is his responsibility. And all this talk about whether to sleep in the bed, or wear the shirts she hates, or catch her on video, blah blah, is all just more power plays and doomed to failure. Again, without RESPECT in a M, what do you have? Nothing but a f-ed up R. Nothing is going to change until that is established.
