How to keep GALing from backfiring?

[saffie]

Lester,

I think you need to see your bank statements. Not necessarily today or tomorrow but you are not a child. Presumably you get statements once a month. I would expect your wife files them somewhere. Do you not have a place at home where you keep all your financial/ personal paperwork? If so they will probably be there. You need to know how you stand in case things don't work out how you want. Don't make a big deal out of it, just see what you can find if you get a few minutes to yourself. I don't think this is snooping. It's common sense.

saffie