That being said, you get props for not throwing him into that ocnversation. ======================== ditto, that takes amazing control and nerves of steel, I dont' think I would've kept my mouth shut.
My H has adhd, so he has the attention span of a few min, and also forgets most of what he learns. So, review review and review your notes (I make myself cheat sheets from posts here, print them and read them when I feel like cr*ap)
Would she read a book with you? I got this book for my H on CD and he actually said "we should read it again" last year. It's the "men are from mars and women are from venus" your wife sure could use some pointers from that book.
I never understood before how men need to retreat and have time alone to heal, us women must have others around to hear us out and speak out minds, men do it privately and a female mind boggles at the concept that men need their privacy away from our "helping" hands.
Our AWOL friend, Sven, would call me "the improvement committee"
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
