I posted to you "if she can't stand the heat..." it is HER that needs to get out of the kitchen. I was going to reiterate that point again in my post to you yesterday - and now I wish I had. This is not me doing the crowd mentality thing. This is what I was thinking all along. YOU have to kick HER out of the MARITAL bed. It is important that it is that way around. Get back in that bed tonight, when she asks you what you are doing there tell her it's your bed and could she kindly take her frigid self and that dog out of the marital bed unless she is a) prepared to leave the dog out of it b) prepared to be felt up occasionally.
Or words to that effect
You did good by the way. Awesome in fact. But please don't make the mistake of thinking it doesn't matter who moves out of which bed. I told you this stuff was hard but you are getting better at it all the time.
Fran
if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs Erica Jong
