you could be right but I have offered. Many times before the sitch and offering to do it or help I think would set off alarms in her head. I know she doesn't want a lot of the responsibility but I can't seem to get her to share either.
H 30 (me) W 28 Married 9 yrs 2 children EA found out on 7/5/07 ILYBNILWY 8/25/07 The unexamined life is not worth living -Socrates