If she is being sneaky and she deals with the money you MUST see what's going on. Phone that bank and ask for another card and PIN number on the account. Ask for duplicate statements. set up online banking and ask for your own log on references.

You cannot afford to be kept in the dark here. Fidelity, money.....where will it end? This isn't about keeping a marriage this is about survival.

Saffie

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength