============== there, there, it's not all your fault," etc. I do say that. ============== But you dont' really think this way! even if it is not all her fault, she wants validation for having split the family, you dont' have to give it even if she feels bad, she needs to see what she's doing. You can just say something non-commital without humoring her.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
