I wouldn’t trust MrsHD to provide her a good role model when you aren’t around.
Well, I knew you were going to say that because I'm sure you think the same of your W. But I disagree. I think the dysfunction comes from the INTERACTIONS between the two of you. This is probably true for HD and MRSHD as well as Heather and Mr Heather. My main point is that if these two adults can't get their sh*t together enough to act civil/respectful to each other in their own home, than what chance do these chidlren have as they grow and are immersed in this environment. To me, some of these chilren would be better off if they did not see their parents daily powerplays.
