Lester,
They are definitely in a fog. They think they are entitled to the affair, the money, and their anger that they direct towards you. You have to take care and protect yourself. Only you can decide if you want to fight for your marriage. Sometimes it's too painful and hard.

In my case my husband has yet to show any remorse and he thinks he is entitled to more than his share of our assets including 100% of our business. I have a lawyer and accoutant to handle those unpleasant things for me.




Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.
-- Bernice Johnson Reagon