How to keep GALing from backfiring?

[lester]

I know some of you have read my posts and know a little about my sitch. But every time I go out she gets cold and immediately makes her plans to go out. Now I'm doing healthy GALing, book club or movies or minigolf not partying like a teenager and am reasonable. It's like I do this and she gets "revenge". I know GAL is for me but should I just D her? I mean this incredibly childish and I'm tired of being treated like crap doing minor things and having her pay me back by being out all day being a teenie bopper.

Any 180's, etc. that can change this pattern? I'm really not too interested in what she does because I know that feeds the A. But seriously, is she just hopeless? I don't want to be a babysitter for her to act single.