Hey Cat, I've been reading your sitch when I can. You have a lot of strength. I keep trying to think of something really profound and insightful to say to you that will help, but I think you've already said and thought anything I could come up with. If I do think of anything really good, I'll let you know! ;-)
But back to me... Coincidentally, we did decide to fly my d back to Denver for that week. I'll have both kids again, which will be great. My d will have a chance to meet and play with her old friends. We'll all go to my son's concert. It's still not a perfect solution, but it's not a bad one.
A thing that gives me a little glimmer of hope: my wife couldn't sleep after talking to me about S's concert and such. She called me the next day to talk about it. She does feel it's her fault, and she feels guilty about it. It's a little pathetic and self pitying when she says "it's all my fault", and I have a hunch she's looking for me to say "there, there, it's not all your fault," etc. I do say that. It's not all her fault and ... oops, got to go
M45, W45,S15, D10, Bomb 10/3/06, Moved back in 11/6/06, finally ILY 9/07 last thread
