MAT,

I agree with YOYO he lived there too and you both worked. It is what it is AN EXCUSE for his MLC behavoiur!!!

I think you should go for Alimony. Why should you and D suffer financially. You didn't want this he did, and you are being fair with him on this.

You are also entitled to half his retirement and don't let him tell you you are not!

He wants his cake all the way around and there are cosequences to his actions, now he'll have to live with them.

His actions, His choice, His consequences!

Please try not to lose beauty sleep over it. ;\)

Chin up, Detach, Detach, Detach.

J

You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez