There is no formal "no contact" initiatied, "I don't whine, beg, cry, pled, anyway, so none of those behaviors to change. H moved out 12 days ago and I have heard NOTHING from him - no phone, email, nothing. How can I begin to open the lines of communication like this? he specifically said he didn;t want to see or talk to me. HELP!
I looked up some of your posts. They all say the same thing! We need to know some details. What has been going on? Are you okay? Tell us about the last year, what lead to this sitch. It did not happen over night! BE HONEST! Can't help if you are not honest, you won't be judged! Tell us what has happened in detail.
Married:10 years D final 8/28/08 10 minutes is all it took Life goes on and DB was no small part in growing from the Divorce!
You can DB with no contact by Getting a Life and being positive. DB does not have to involve the other spouse, in fact many are hostile to saving the marriage. You can still do 180's even when no one is watching. I clean the garage, go to yoga, attend concerts, picnic with my kids, and wear pencil skirts without any notice from my H. He is not aware or present nor do I mention any of these things to him. DBing takes patience and listening.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
