My H has not said that he wanted to see me as well when he wanted to be close for DS....and H said he never missed me...that he needed to be away from me...this still hurts to hear but I have to accept that they were his feelings and I can't change that...and to some extent perhaps he can't either...
Capitolize on being the most important woman in his life...even if it is because of DS...he is in a confused state...he is looking for an anchor...if he can't trust OW then that will all be temporary...do what you can to help him trust you...this puts you in good light then...
