You are a very cool guy. But what does cool actually mean and why is it admired? Cool is opposite of warm. Emotionally warm people get involved, cool people do not. The trait is admired because cool people are not vulnerable. To most people vulnerable = weak.
Is there really any way for any of us to uncover the vulnerable part again like we did when we were much younger? That state of blissful ignorance when you trusted another human being to treat your bunny nicely? It would take incredible bravery.
BTW I like the sound of JC - I aspire to be like her.
Fran
if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs Erica Jong
