There's always someone listening! I feel like the ghost in machine at times.
How's the legal struggle going? Have you settled everything now that you have the year long RO in place? I can see the need for these things but I sure do see a lot of abuse in the system but at times I guess the court says "Better safe than sorry." after a few defendents were truly abused and didn't receive help. It's not a truly just legal system but I'm sure they do their best.