Your goals sound really good. Have you ever wondered what would happen if we all just spent more time dancing? My friend said that dancing saved her M when her H had his MLC. I thought about it and yeah, that would have been such an easy solution. My H is spending fun time with the OW because I have basically become a full time babysitter since he has no responsibilities. He takes her camping, to concerts, to dinner and shopping. I am sure I would be a real great girlfriend too but I work and have kids and a home to take care of. I would be way fun if I got to do all those things, but I have no money since myH left me to spend our money on other things. Vicious cycle.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."