Donna, I know what you mean. That is why I had a thread called Losing Friends. It is one of the odd side effects of seperation. I think one of the best exercises right now is to listen, listen, listen without talking about our sitches or our WS. Being depressed and a LBS makes us extremely self centered and self conscious. Your friend will come around , mine did, and now I have a great support system. we are more than our problems. Look at your life, it is a wonderful except for one thing. Your H had an affair, but you know what, who hasn't? Really.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."