Good to hear from you alamogirl. The 401k thing will be a pain for a bit, but you'll be glad you did it later.
I think the job may be a good thing...though getting used to being alone is something you'll just have to face at some point. That one's behind me now, but I won't lie and say I love being single. There are things that are nice about it, but anyone who says being single isn't lonely either has never been married or is lying. That's not to say I'm lonely all the time...I'm not. But if given the choice, I'd much rather be in a (good) relationship. My thoughts are with you when you're alone in your house. You'll do OK...but if you're feeling down, stop by here.
I sure hear the "exhausted" thing. I'm tired of it all too. While your financial situation isn't good right now, you can be thankful that you're at least at a point where you can begin rebuilding your life (financially and otherwise). I remain in limbo, having heard nothing for a couple weeks now, and desperately want to be where you are...moving on. I have a feeling 2008 will be better for us both and that thought is what is getting me through.