Fog! Its the fog!!!! Its laughable what they come up with. And yes, it can make you very sad as well. H blames me 100% for our problems, and has tried to throw in the A as being my fault too.
I think alimony, if you want it, is worth fighting for, of course. Like you said, you would be giving up the marriage. A few months ago, H said to me "So, I move out, the kids don't see me as much, you get to stay in the house. Oh you win again, you get everything you want". What?? I am losing my husband and family if that happens.
