[bf flicks bent daggers from achilles hide nonchalantly]

Maybe I should bring the wolf after all. I was under the impression this thread was about sexual empathy.

Let's just assume that NG is an intelligent person and a nice man and if he perceived that a woman was hiding her bunny in a monkey suit he might have a good idea why that was happening.

ah.

When's the last time you fed one of your "dates"?

\:\/ we had ice cream.

I tried to bring the cow and the bunny. I was chicken-sh*t but I did it anyways because I am bold if not brave. I just couldn't quite pull it off. FYI, I made him some plum tarts and I was happy

I wasnt picking at you Mojo, or think you have to do any of that. Get what you need.
In neither bold, nor brave. Im confidant. BTDT.
Im reallllly tired of women telling me Im a jerk, and that I should be dealing with things like a woman does, when Im doing my damndest to DNH. I dont approach, so Im not exhibiting. welll.... I dont approach, what should I do? push them down on the floor, scream EEEEKK a girl!!! and run away?

Everything I have learned here I have tried to put to use so that DNH. Now Im responsible for the bunnies of the tiger/shark/hyena girls too.
Ok.
I keep saying its not my job, but I guess it is. Good to know. Thanks Mojo. I guess if Im responsible for the bunny, she shouldnt pretend to be a zoo keeper. Ive been contemplating celibacy for awhile now, since I was in Peru actually. Basically went for a month without it. The risk/reward I get from sex vs. what I could get is not worth it anymore. Hasnt been.

You know I went to the wolf, simply because, when I was monkey or stallion, they wouldnt believe my brutal honesty. But they know me better. whatever.


When's the last time you fed one of your "dates"?

Im a big fan of going to sushi for an interview after I have met her. I cook at JC's house maybe every other time I see her. According to her, she only likes me cause I manhandled her 3 pitbulls and jack russel from day one, and she likes me to go with her when she goes out. I only like her, cause she never asks me for anything, most likely because of her 'zen' personality, between that and her complete social indifferance and imperviousness, it comes of and feels accepting. her and her crazy gf's make me laugh too. I almost dropped my laptop when Karen cursed me with hell on wheels, cause that is what her gf's call her.

Dont worry about me falling 'in love' though, Im smart enough to know where it comes from. I know you will. *snort*

working at being empathetic and responsive, generally working at sexual personal growth.
yeah me too.

Okay, obviously we can but do we really want to?

So. do we want -what we want -when we want it, or do we want intimacy? shrug. I know what I got.

speaking for myself, since you are still fresh.

If I empathize with a man's desire to see me as "innocent" that doesn't mean that I have to be innocent. I can just play innocent in the same way I might play naughty school-girl.

I have no desire to see her as innocent. When they come at me with the coy, fluttering eyes, I snatch em out of their innocent game so fast, they wave the white flag of surrender instantly.
The ones who are I just stare at untill they shrivel up and run back to the safety of their friends.

The only reason you could play naughty school girl is if he thinks you are innocent. Other wise the dicohtomy and fantasy ceases to exist.
Some women hate that game.

You can accept reality but still play with the components of desire.

So they say.

Your not a crybaby. Your a woman easily moved to tears. you feel, you emote, its over with. Nothing wrong with that.