Husband, NO! We were actively trying to have a baby for months before the A. The sex stopped when he started with OW (his idea), but we were trying from January-May. I was just commenting that if things wouldn't have happened, I might be PG and having a baby soon.
Sorry you were not able to when ya wanted to. But... As it is panningout now It is a blessing you are not. If you were and if the H stayed with you "just because" would not be a good thing
husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
I totally agree. Totally!!!! I can barely keep myself fed and rested, much less a life inside of me. And yes, I already feel like the 2nd rate consolation prize, a part of the 'stay with the kids' package. I would never want the 'just because' factor.
You are absolutley right about not wanting him to stay with you because of a pregancy. I'm sure in the back of your mind you would be thinking how long will he stay with me after baby is born? It would be so hard and unfair raising a baby by yourself. I'm sure it very difficult by yourself with the two young children you have. My daughters are teens and can take care of themselves, but it was so hard trying to act strong in front of them when I all I wanted to do was bawl.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
Yes, and he would stay with me during the pg, and after. But when would he leave? How unhappy would he be? This is a good thing.
I find it hard to focus on the kids during the day, my mind is spinning in 100 directions, especially if I find out a minibomb during the day (for example, they used to tell me they saw Miss _____ -OW- at the park today, blah blah blah). Some days, I just want to tuck in a ball and get in bed. I hear ya.
Yeah, back down the roller coaster with that comment. H is home now. I don't usually get on when he's around, but I have a.....who gives a "F" attitude right now. He's laying on the bed watching tv. I walked past, touched his foot and asked him a question. He answered, but pulled his foot away. He's being a butthead right now, but it's been a few days......my guess is that he'll turn around and want sex later!! LOL....the nerve.
Well, D3 had a hard time getting to sleep. We had a storm with lightening and thunder roll through. She's asleep now and so it's my turn.
I know I've already said it 2 or 3 times tonight....but I am signing off this time. Have a good night all!! Thanks for the support tonight. I needed it.
lwb....thanks again for the laughs on your thread. I did pump up a little to Billy Blanks & his Tae Bo. Felt GOOD!
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day
But everything for a reason, right? 