I asked H to leave; regret-now what?

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Dom, I forgot to ask you about your point on going dark. Yes I know H has "gone dark" on me, but are there any other choices for me to take.

I just can't see emailing or telephoning him at this point-he's pretty much made it clear he doesnt' want anything to do with me.

To answer your question on "passion": He's a musician and a promoter.

I'm trying to get real with myself, strengthen my weaknesses, GLA, etc. At this point I don't know if I'm prepared to wait a long time before legal separation-I don't want to chance getting into more of a financial mess and currently there is no indication that he wants to stay married.

Thanks for the info on the MLC forums, I'll do some reading.