Pamar, what a good way to think. *I* am not having the A, so why should I be concerned about the calls, why should I stress myself out? Its their problem. They aren't concerned with me at the moment, so I need to worry about myself.
Sue, I think you are good to DB before deciding whether to confront H or not. You are ready (or as ready as you can be). By you making these changes, your foggy H might realize what he has done.
Pamar, thanks. I do have a life. Watch out H, I am going on with it, with or without you.
