Restated that I'm not angry at her at all, and then took a shot and said that I understand how you got emotionally where you are (done with me), I wish that it were otherwise, but that I'm largely to blame because I came to my realizations too late.
4. I think, right now, she's just burnt out on me and the R because I hadn't changed (well, had changed for the negative) and doesn't believe I'm back to the old me. I still think she thinks it's an act.
Gosh H, how could she ever feel burned out with all the R talk with you??? You keep going back to and back to it back to it. It is like you are addicted to R talk. To bad there is not one of those shock collars they put on dogs that you could use and every time you started R talk it would shock you. I am sure the pain of the shock would hurt a lot less then the pain your constant R talk effects your wife.
Originally Posted By: Heimlich
3. She has NEVER replied to anything that I've written to her regarding emotions between us that was anything but, 'stop it'. First semi-positive things she's written.
Well H she does not respond because she does not have to or does not feel like it. Just because you want to talk about it does not mean she has to. It would be nice, that is for sure. But, obviously she does not respond for a reason. But, I am sure that does not stop you from writing her.
Originally Posted By: Heimlich
Kindof funny, we were talking about the weekends with the girls and she was saying that I ought to take them somewhere on Sundays if it's nice. I said I might, or I might watch football. She said something else, and I replied, not in an angry way, that that's your opinion, but I don't really have to listen to it now. Maybe i will again one day, but not now. If I choose to spend a Sunday with the girls watching a football game, that's my choice.
Kind of cocky and arrogant to feel this way IMHO. Is this the same attitude you had with her when you were together?
My comments are not to drag you down or to kick you PMA, just to give you an outsiders perception. Be it accurate or not.
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